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| Reason Behind Break-up's |
They were friends when I met her the first time at a parlour. They were good friends from a nearby locality and I joined them with smiles and words. I was there as a viewer from the beginning of this usual love story.
I personally doesn't like them getting tagged to another relation because I know that can separate me from the circle anyway. You know.... ... some sort of.... ... .. a piece of envy ..... ... or something likewise............ ..... .. .
Aryan is a Romeo type, stylish guy who like to ride his bike, party every time or flirting with someone, such a boy who spends time for roaming with friends and chatting with girls every time. She too was such a kind who likes long rides, parties, friends, shopping's etc. so to get attracted to him was not been a big magical thing. She proposed him in front of me and he was already in love with her to accept her request. And that relation of being lovers continued beautifully but boring through airways communication. I was the intermediate in solving there problems while they quarrel for nothing. After six months of their friendship + love season, she shifted to a rented house with her friends, where she got much freedom than being a paying guest. It should be considered as the second stage of modern love. They understood more and more about each other. They are practically finding each others interest with the good and bad in them. They started to go for trips and parties making each other happy and sharing wonderfully than ever. After a part of such life, enjoying more than five months, they took the decision of living together in the same apartment. And it was absolutely fine for them to live likewise.
By the time, he lost his friends because of his run for love. Chatting the major part of time with her, lost his interest in everything and made his friends feel bad about him. He started feeling lonely at the room where her absence and mates silence disturbed him a lot. This also made him conclude to the decision about changing the habitat.
Finally they started living together as like man and wife. They were happier than ever.
In the platform of happiness they gave me a treat at their new apartment letting myself to enjoy with them. I remember that day we drunk a lot to sleep. In the midst of all those happy moments, I even sang a song praising them a better married life after.
The life started for them, and after two wonderful weeks she gave me a call saying he is not doing anything and he is a lazy dumb . That repeated after two three days calling me with some more negative comments regarding him. Calling me for the same became a frequent thing in a month. I got irritated and warned her not to call me again regarding these silly things.
After some days I visited their apartment, and find him going college daily apart from the usual serial bunker phase. That night I had a beer with him and was talking about her faults like shouting every second, restricting everything etc... The situation for him was worse than ever because he should find the money for major part of rent and shopping. He can't restrict himself from flirting with girls and she can't accept that. She wanted him to stay asleep, while she work on her studies overnight. Funny thing is that he likes spending time sleeping. After another month it was hard for me to believe that they finished it with the tag 'The End' separating themselves to strangers.
After some days I visited their apartment, and find him going college daily apart from the usual serial bunker phase. That night I had a beer with him and was talking about her faults like shouting every second, restricting everything etc... The situation for him was worse than ever because he should find the money for major part of rent and shopping. He can't restrict himself from flirting with girls and she can't accept that. She wanted him to stay asleep, while she work on her studies overnight. Funny thing is that he likes spending time sleeping. After another month it was hard for me to believe that they finished it with the tag 'The End' separating themselves to strangers.
Isn't we witness true love?? Do you believe true love never break up ??
This story left me some questions and definitions that made me let find its answers.
What actually is love and thus formed relations, friends, lovers and helpers is one among them.
I understood love is something that lies in performing an action we don't want to, but dedicating the same for someone we care. The best example is the mom who creates the next generation beautiful. She is the one who patiently work for her son or daughter even if they say 'I hate you'. The love that will not accept break up from both sides.
This story left me some questions and definitions that made me let find its answers.
What actually is love and thus formed relations, friends, lovers and helpers is one among them.
I understood love is something that lies in performing an action we don't want to, but dedicating the same for someone we care. The best example is the mom who creates the next generation beautiful. She is the one who patiently work for her son or daughter even if they say 'I hate you'. The love that will not accept break up from both sides.
So is giving out our pride, selfishness, anger etc. for the one we care will teach us the true love. It sometimes will not give best friends in life, but surely true friends. Even they can provide true love and great relations which can make us never feel lonely.
Another interesting fact I found is the major reason for breakups. It is simple but unacceptable.
Loving couples will not agree if I say 'knowing each other more than required' as the cause of breakups. Every human being is attracted to the other because of the interest within oneself to know the other. If you understood what is the best and worst about someone; interest dies. It is too simple so that I can explain it another way.
Loving couples will not agree if I say 'knowing each other more than required' as the cause of breakups. Every human being is attracted to the other because of the interest within oneself to know the other. If you understood what is the best and worst about someone; interest dies. It is too simple so that I can explain it another way.
Imagine you got a big metal box while digging some corner of your land. And you will be dying to open it and to discover what is hidden inside. If the oracle is saying you should open it after two weeks, you will be thinking about the box every time and will take care of the box giving it a good and secure place to rest. After two weeks you are opening the box and finds nothing valuable inside it. Your interest dies along with its position as a great thing. It becomes a waste box and normal one as like the other boxes at home.
The truth is, we’re all fascinated by the mysterious and forbidden. It’s like it’s programmed into our very nature. Same is the thing about your partner. In the beginning he/she feels like the unrevealed box and that provides him/her a great position in life. Believes he/she can change my life. After some months of real life experiences and realization, we will realize there is nothing unknown about him/her and he/she becomes a normal box and finally find these usual things getting bored. Finally the bored mind itself creates bad comments, problems etc. about their partner for nothing but for time pass.
It is better to conclude with an advice that can hold the relations. It is also simple. One should protect the space of their partner, keep believing he/she is something more than what I know. Show some formality of gentleness among yourself. And the box will surely live a lifetime as precious as it is considered.
Wishing you a best year ahead. Surprises are awaiting you with a better fortune. Don't rush to open it fast. If you believe and stay calm for the right time it will surely bring you surprises.
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